Feeling Alone
- diedrawayans
- Nov 8, 2014
- 2 min read
I have a best male friend who I use to date and we have still remained close friends. He is in a relationship and I have not been since one since we seperated. I still love and want to be with him. I have stood by him through everything. We also sometimes have sexual contact. Should I wait for him or move on?
Sometimes we label our relationships as Friends and we believe it. Friends are not intimate. Once you have a sexual relationship with someone more than once feelings start to evolve. Before we know it, we are caught up in a one sided relationship. The reason that I state one-sided is because you have stated that he is in a different relationship. However, he continues to be intimate with you. He's not loyal to his other relationship if he is being unfaithful with you. In actuality, he is having his cake and eating it too. Move On. Know your worth! You are worthy of someone returning the love that you have for them. You are worthy of commitment. You must love yourself and always put yourself and your feelings First. You mentioned that you feel alone. Today is the day to Let it Go! Move forward with your life because Men love a Challenge. By moving on he will either realize that you are worth more than a "Booty Call" and begin to chase you or he won't care and you'll never hear from him again. But that's fine too because you will be doing you. Always hold your head high while walking in your Stilettos to find your journey in a new relationship with even exchange of feelings, loyalty, love and most important Commitment. If a Man can't commit then he's not worth your time.
Just Ask Ducky!
