Do You Have a Sociopath in your Life? This is a MUST READ.
- by: Diedra Wayans
- Sep 25, 2015
- 4 min read
In Life, You will have People in your Circle that are there to help your growth and/or Destroy you or attempt to Stop You From Receiving What God Has For You, It is really important that we keep Positive people in Our Life. All People you meet are not genuine.
In order to be a Positive Role Model to others you must have walked the walk. You must be geniune in your love of People. You must have knowledge, experience and a true understanding of your struggles and the journey. Sociopaths cannot separate truth from lies. It is spoken that we can Never Hate our Enemies, but we must keep them close. WE need to see the Wicked, Bad and Manipulative poeple before they bring harm on us. We have enough Struggles with just maintaining a certain normalcy in our lives.
As a Parent, we want to be Creative, Spiritual, Loving, and Kind so that Our children will become positive role modesl. We must guard our heart and protect theirs. Never allow people to label you. If so, then you should immediately put yourself on Guard. Even if that person claims it's with good intentions. Having a Friend should not be another Struggle for you nor cause you any feelings of pain. I believe that Competition is always good, A little Jealousy can be Healthy in that some people get motivated to do better for their own life because they want to live in your likeness. But, Envy is born of Hate.. A Sociopath has the following qualities listed below. So please, You must Beware.
SIGNS OF A SOCIOPATH:
Glibness and Superficial Charm
Manipulative and Conning They never recognize the rights of others and see their self-serving behaviors as permissible. They appear to be charming, yet are covertly hostile and domineering, seeing their victim as merely an instrument to be used. They may dominate and humiliate their victims.
Grandiose Sense of Self Feels entitled to certain things as "their right."
Pathological Lying Has no problem lying coolly and easily and it is almost impossible for them to be truthful on a consistent basis. Can create, and get caught up in, a complex belief about their own powers and abilities. Extremely convincing and even able to pass lie detector tests.
Lack of Remorse, Shame or Guilt A deep seated rage, which is split off and repressed, is at their core. Does not see others around them as people, but only as targets and opportunities. Instead of friends, they have victims and accomplices who end up as victims. The end always justifies the means and they let nothing stand in their way.
Shallow Emotions When they show what seems to be warmth, joy, love and compassion it is more feigned than experienced and serves an ulterior motive. Outraged by insignificant matters, yet remaining unmoved and cold by what would upset a normal person. Since they are not genuine, neither are their promises.
Incapacity for Love
Need for Stimulation Living on the edge. Verbal outbursts and physical punishments are normal. Promiscuity and gambling are common.
Callousness/Lack of Empathy Unable to empathize with the pain of their victims, having only contempt for others' feelings of distress and readily taking advantage of them.
Poor Behavioral Controls/Impulsive Nature Rage and abuse, alternating with small expressions of love and approval produce an addictive cycle for abuser and abused, as well as creating hopelessness in the victim. Believe they are all-powerful, all-knowing, entitled to every wish, no sense of personal boundaries, no concern for their impact on others.
Early Behavior Problems/Juvenile Delinquency Usually has a history of behavioral and academic difficulties, yet "gets by" by conning others. Problems in making and keeping friends; aberrant behaviors such as cruelty to people or animals, stealing, etc.
Irresponsibility/Unreliability Not concerned about wrecking others' lives and dreams. Oblivious or indifferent to the devastation they cause. Does not accept blame themselves, but blames others, even for acts they obviously committed.
Promiscuous Sexual Behavior/Infidelity Promiscuity, child sexual abuse, rape and sexual acting out of all sorts.
Lack of Realistic Life Plan/Parasitic Lifestyle Tends to move around a lot or makes all encompassing promises for the future, poor work ethic but exploits others effectively.
Criminal or Entrepreneurial Versatility Changes their image as needed to avoid prosecution. Changes life story readily.
Other Related Qualities:
Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
Authoritarian
Secretive
Paranoid
Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
Conventional appearance
Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life
Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love)
Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
Incapable of real human attachment to another
Unable to feel remorse or guilt
Extreme narcissism and grandiose
May state readily that their goal is to rule the world
(The above traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare.)
A Sociopath will steal your dreams, your husband, your children and your life. If you discover from this list that you have a lurking Sociopath in your Life, IMMEDIATELY Delete the Sociopath from your life.
